You have the responsibility to remain silent
as everything you say can and will be used against you

You have the responsibility to pay for your apartment
if you cannot afford your own apartment,
your life decisions will be dictated by your roommates

After all I sacrificed to give us this place in Charlotte and all I do to maintain it-- this is where I am left. I don't even want to go there. I feel like a loser that has nothing to offer any visitor; no car, no shelter, no food. What is the point of even having an address at all? Will home always be just a place to escape from?

"Don't ever tell anybody anything. If you do, you start missing everybody." --J.D. Salinger, The Catcher in the Rye: last line